Dear
No where fast,
As a guy who once cried and begged a girl that I would change
(and I did try) I couldn't. The change came later after she
had left me. A man who gets his way feels like they won something
almost like he's in control...this is not a good thing...you
need to be blunt, be cruel if need be. Yes you love him, yes
you care for him, but you need to move on MOVE ON. You will
hurt his feelings either way you do it...tell him you love him
and always will and because of him you are a stronger and better
person for having known and been with him.
It
will not be easy for you...JUST DO IT!!! ~ Like the Nike commercial
~ Assure him he is a great guy, and there is
someone who is better suited for him, make him think, you
know your crazy for ending it, it makes guys feel a little
better when its done in this manner......DONT you be afraid
., BE honest speak with love and caring in your eyes,...good
luck!
BTW.. Now that your going to be single.. .I'm available...
good luck
Leo
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Dear
No where fast,
It sounds like you have been down this dead end before and
no new roads have opened.
You do need to understand issues with the children and their
mothers but you also need to know when he is using it as a
cop-out.
If you have had the "this is it, for last time"
conversation again, and things still have not changed, it
is time to saying good-bye, getting your things back and moving
on with your life. Change your lock, change your phone number,
don't take his calls at work, and he'll get the hint.
Some
people will stay in a bad situation for various reasons but
when they get tired enough of the situation it usually makes
it a little easier to say good-bye.
Honey, it sounds like it is that time.
Good Luck and be strong,
Leandra
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