Dear
Stay or Go,
Tell him how you are feeling and be honest as well as direct.
Since you've been together for over a year, you must know each
other pretty well. Ask him to marry you or ask him to move in.
You know exactly what you need from him so tell him. If he's
answers are vague make sure he understands your wants and needs.
If
his response is not what you had hoped for, tell him you need
a break in order for both of you to see how it is without
each other. (Have you used this one before?) Set a date when
the two of you will meet again. In order for you to know what
it is like without each other do not speak to each other or
see each other. You need to act as if your relationship is
over, but without the heartbreak. Hopefully this will teach
him that being without you is something he does not want.
If
he doesn't come around you are learning how to be without
him already, and if he does come around he should appreciate
you more.
Remember
you are considered SINGLE until that ring is on your finger..
So tell me how it goes and if you do decide to leave him...
my numbers listed
good luck
Leo
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Dear
Stay or Go,
Unfortunately you can not make someone make a decision. It
sounds like you two need to sit down and have a heart to heart
talk.
You
need to tell him how you feel about your relationship and
where you would like it to go. If you feel that the relationship
is not moving forward, it may be time to give him an ultimatum,
then hope for the best BUT expect the worst.
He
may not be ready to move this relationship where you want
it to go. Sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Good Luck,
Leandra
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